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One Year

Brandy and I were thinking about something that had happened and were trying to figure out if it had been more or less than a year ago. (I think it turned out to be more.) But anyway, that led Brandy to check something on my blog.

She was looking for this entry. That post announced the death of my parakeet Brain. It was a sad day. But when she rushed back to my house from her house to help me bury Brain and to grieve with me, it kinda marked the start of when we started “dating”. Well, that can be counted in many different ways. We first met back in February 2003. I think. Our first “date” was in March 2003. And we talked and saw each other fairly regularly from that point onward as “just friends”. And certain other (cough) milestones (cough) would actually be later on down the road than this date. And I didn’t actually say publicly to anyone that we were a couple until this post almost a month later.

But the transition into being a couple, or at least calling it that kinda happened that day. In retrospect, we had been acting like a couple for months before that. But this was when we sort of started realizing it ourselves.

I put that posting up at:

12 Nov 2003 01:44:39 UTC

Exactly one year later (given the true length of a year and the oddities of the calendar) would be:

11 Nov 2004 07:33:25 UTC

Um, it’s now a little bit more than two and a half days since then. So I guess we missed it. Oops.

But, better late than never I suppose.

Happy one year of being a couple Brandy. It has been a great year. It is hard to believe it has actually ONLY been a year. Thank you. I love you. And here is to the next year being as fun as the first, but perhaps not quite as chaotic!

4 comments to One Year

  • NM210

    That is so sweet Sam, even if you had to be “reminded”, most men do so it isn’t that big of a deal. Now if it were a wedding anniversary then I’d say you’re in trouble, but you haven’t gotten that far yet! Congrats to both of you, I have never met you in person Brandy, but as I’ve said before, you seem like a really great person and you obviously make Sam happy. I’m so glad for both of you, it make take a long time to find true happiness, but once you do, it sure is worth the wait and time spent looking.

  • Abulsme

    Just to be clear, NEITHER of us remembered until after it was past…

  • Brandy

    I THOUGHT about it before, I just don’t know how truly important it is. It’s interesting in a trivia kind of way.

    Now WEDDING anniversaries and birthdays are another thing completely (even though I kinda almost forgot Sam’s birthday saved only because a buisness trip had him 1000 miles away necessitating celebrating several days later). And besides, my birthday is the only one that counts. :-)

  • Abulsme

    I think we are right about at two years since we met. Not sure of the exact date yet.

    Ah. Looks like we just missed it. On Jan 31st 2003 I emailed Kelly about you. Almost added the info here, but then decided to make a new post of it.

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